Trouble in the paradise? Reasons why you are not getting along with your spouse

If you and your spouse are constantly bickering, making plans without the other and don't mind spending 'alone' time, then there are good chances there's trouble in paradise. Here are three reasons probably why you are not enjoying marital bliss.

-Money matters

Are the two of you financially secure? Do you lock horns over bills, savings and indulgent spendings? Then it's time to sit down and have a heart-to-heary. The way you both handle money is important. If you have issues over the woman of the house earning more, then your thought process needs to change as well.

-Lack of sexual intimacy

Surprisingly, many divorce cases site lack of sex or inability to satisfy during intercourse as a reason. Sex is important in a marriage and no amount of convincing yourself that 'being available for each other and connecting emotionally' is enough will not work. Lack of intimacy or cutting down on sex is a big sign that you may head towards divorce.

-Forgiving, but not forgetting

Are you the kind to hold grudge? If you are someone who easily forgives but brings back the mistake in every new arguement, then it's time you changed your behaviour. Holding a grudge is a trait that will easily lead to bitterness in a relationship. So, fight, but forget, forgive and kiss and make up if you don't want splitsville in your life.


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