Self-esteem that's high

In any relationship - whether personal or professional - initially, it is a totally positive projection. There is a person who projects on to you all that is positive: you are marvellous, unique, dependable and valuable. This projection generates a state of bliss and well-being. You feel loved, cared for, needed and valued.

However, this positive projection lasts until the negative projection begins to emerge with dependencies and expectations. 'You should have called me, told me, arrived at this time, been more like this, less like that,' and 'done this or that.' Positive projections and a happy state disappear with these expectations, demands and dependencies. The 'other' has started interfering in your personal space, and the harmony that existed there previously is lost.

One needs to learn to have a positive vision of oneself. You are marvellous and unique; don't depend on others telling you so. This does not mean you need to feed your ego with praise, acceptance and appreciation from outside sources.


Think about all your inner creativity, positivity and optimism through regular practice while experiencing spiritual wisdom, universal values, divine meditation, and a healthy and natural lifestyle so that you do not depend on others to project positive things onto you to feel good now and then. By feeling good in an independent way, you will be able to share sustainable inner peace, love, happiness and positivism with others.