Give up conflict

Possessiveness, ego and the hankering for power are causes of family disturbances, social evils and war. The very basis of a war is created at a personal level. Failing to understand dharma and a lack of empathy for others are reasons for discord. Each religion has given importance to non- violence, love, compassion, goodwill and selflessness. But it is strange to see mankind involved with the opposites. It implies a serious lack of common sense.

In day-to-day life, we segregate stale vegetables while purchasing, ensure that we receive the right amount of currency while exchanging, and never forget to check the water quality before drinking. But we fail to apply our intelligence in matters of dharma. We are happy to follow others and conclude that since 'it is said' or 'advised', it must be true.

To become free thinkers, we should analyse the catastrophic effects of bad vrittis. The Buddha avoided war between the Sakyas and Koliyas arising from the water dispute of the River Rohini. After fighting the dreaded Kalinga war, Emperor Ashoka gave up violence and embraced peace and non-violence. The countries beyond his empire also accepted peace.


It is key to eradicate ego. We must make ourselves capable of introspection and understand that everything is anitya, impermanent. All things and experiences are due to some causes and conditions. They, too, are subject to change, decline and cessation. This is vipassana - subjectively observing the body, feelings and chitta.

Today is Buddha Purnima