“Jo aarop laga raha vo mere bachpan ka pyar hai”: Govinda responds to wife’s extramarital affair allegation in ‘budhapa’

Veteran Bollywood actor Govinda has responded to allegations linked to his personal life during Valentine Week, a time usually associated with love and relationships. Speaking to news agency ANI, the actor dismissed claims of an extramarital affair after remarks by his wife Sunita Ahuja triggered public discussion. Govinda described the accusations as recurring and used the moment to reflect on love, age, and his professional conduct in the film industry.

“Jo aarop laga raha vo mere bachpan ka pyar hai,” says Govinda

Reacting to the controversy, Govinda appeared calm and reflective. Addressing the claims, he told ANI, "Kab nahi laga aarop mujhpar( When did I not get this accusation)", and added, "Jo aarop laga raha mere bachpan ka pyar hai (The accusation is by my childhood love)..In the matter of love. It never worked properly. Ab jo pyar ho raha hai kisi ke sochne ke mutabik ye budhape ka hai (Now this love, according to someone's thinking, is of old age)."

The actor’s remarks suggested that he views the allegations as part of a long-standing pattern rather than a new development.

Actor highlights decades of professional discipline

Govinda also used the interaction to speak at length about his conduct in the film industry and his respect for co-actors. Stressing his professional ethics, the ‘Hero No. 1’ actor said, "I have worked with four superstars, Miss Universe heroine. I have never looked at them. Ek meri heroine aesa nahi keh sakti ki maine tangh kiya ho ya kisi ke liya apshabd keh diya ho.. I thank all the artists and heroines. Meri jo films chali hai for that I am thankful to my directors, songs and heroines in the films. My mother was a heroine. I never misbehave with any heroines. Now she is taking the name. I have seen it. I don't like such words. Isiliye mai shama maangta hu meri jo newcomers hai taki mai cha raha hu sabke saath kaam karu..kahi dar na jaaye ki iske saath kaise kaam karna hai iske production mein kaam hi nahi karenge (I apologize. My newcomers, I want to work with them. I don't want to be afraid)."

His comments reflected concern that such allegations could affect his working relationships, especially with younger actors entering the industry.

Govinda shares life lessons from his mother

Govinda also shared advice given to him by his mother, linking it to how he views fame, loyalty, and public life. He said, "My mother told me, Govind, if you consider the world of four members of the family, one day they will deceive you. What will you do? The world is loving you. Are they stupid? Don't they have money? Don't they have respect?...I welcome all my actresses. I welcome all the actors. I am here because of you. I am here because of you. I thank you."

The actor credited his audience and colleagues for sustaining his long career in Bollywood.

On the name allegedly linked to him

Responding to reports about another name being associated with him, Govinda said, "Ye jo naam le rahi Komal mai dhanyavad deta hu ki jo mai aaj saved hu vo ek bhi shabd bahi bolti hai vo chup hai itne mein to aaj kal youngsters jo hai.."

He did not go into further detail but maintained that he has exercised restraint in addressing the matter publicly.

A marriage spanning decades

Govinda and Sunita Ahuja have been married since 1987 and are parents to Tina and Yashvardhan. Tina made her Bollywood debut in 2015 with Second Hand Husband, while Yashvardhan is preparing for his acting debut. Amid renewed attention on his personal life, Govinda’s statements indicate his attempt to keep the focus on professionalism, gratitude, and his legacy in the film industry.

Allegations during Valentine Week

The controversy surfaced during Valentine Week, a seven-day period leading up to Valentine’s Day that celebrates different expressions of love. Valentine Week begins on February 7 with Rose Day, followed by Propose Day on February 8, Chocolate Day on February 9, Teddy Day on February 10, Promise Day on February 11, Hug Day on February 12, and Kiss Day on February 13. The week culminates with Valentine’s Day on February 14, which is widely observed as a day dedicated to romantic relationships.