Is Rolling Ray, social media and reality TV star, dead? Rumors abound after mother deletes posts and cousin’s cryptic statements on Facebook

Raymond “Rolling Ray” Harper, known for his unapologetic humor and sharp wit, is rumoured to have passed away at age 28, mere days before his 29th birthday on September 5. The heartbreaking news was allegedly confirmed through now deleted emotional post from his mother and a few posts from his cousin on Facebook.

His mother wrote, “It is with a heavy heavy heart that I let you all know that my son Ray Ray… has gone home to be with the Lord,” as fans and family expressed their grief across social platforms.



Rolling Ray rose to prominence with his vibrant on-screen presence on MTV’s Catfish: Trolls, where his quick comebacks and bold personality immediately captivated viewers. He later appeared on Divorce Court and Zeus Network’s Bobby I Love U, Purrr, cementing his reputation as a larger-than-life personality in reality TV and social media culture.

Known affectionately as "the most famous boy inna wheelchair," Rolling Ray embraced his disability openly, becoming a beacon for disabled representation. He turned personal challenges into empowering messages, encouraging self-pride and visibility.

Despite ongoing health battles, Rolling Ray remained a resilient and vibrant presence online. His most harrowing health scare occurred in 2021, when his wig caught fire, resulting in serious burns that required hospitalization. Throughout 2022 and 2024, he faced additional health crises, including COVID-19, pneumonia, and a blood infection—each time bouncing back with his characteristic spirit.

Rolling Ray built a loyal following of over 443,000 Instagram fans, resonating deeply within black, LGBTQ+, and disabled communities. His catchy slang, especially the term ‘purr’, became a notable part of Gen Z slang, while his fearless authenticity helped normalize and uplift voices often marginalized in mainstream media.

His creative output included music releases such as Look At Me, Gun Action, Thank You, and BigPurrrr, further amplifying his cultural footprint.

As word of his death spread, social media flooded with grieving tributes, fanfare, and heartfelt memories. Posts from family members–like his cousin’s tearful message, “I am so heart broken. I don't have words for this right now…”–underscore the profound loss felt by loved ones and fans alike.