Will Jennifer Lopez never find love again? Insider reveals why romance may no longer be in the cards after divorce with Ben Affleck

Jennifer Lopez may be one of the most glamorous and successful women in Hollywood, but when it comes to love, it seems she’s stuck in an emotional time loop—forever orbiting around her ex-husband, Ben Affleck. According to a report from Radar Online, insiders say that the On the Floor singer is struggling to move on, unable to find a new man who meets her sky-high expectations.

"Jen genuinely wants to date again, but every guy she meets just doesn’t measure up to Ben," an insider spills. "She still sees him as the ultimate partner, and that’s making it nearly impossible for her to let someone new in."

Adding fuel to the fire, Lopez is reportedly finding it painful to watch Affleck and his ex-wife Jennifer Garner rekindle their friendship. A viral video of the former couple looking cozy together has only made things worse, leaving Lopez feeling like she’s on the outside looking in.

Too Much of a Diva for Love?

Beyond her lingering attachment to Affleck, Lopez’s larger-than-life personality might also be keeping potential suitors at bay. Sources claim her “diva tendencies” make it difficult for men to get close to her, and her sky-high standards leave little room for imperfections.

"She’s got this idea of the perfect relationship, and if a guy doesn’t fit the mold, she moves on before giving it a real chance," an insider explains. "She’s had several low-key dates arranged through her team, but none have gone anywhere. She always finds something wrong."

While Lopez has been known for her whirlwind romances—marrying Affleck after rekindling their love 20 years later and famously jumping into serious relationships—this time, she’s treading more cautiously. Some believe she’s afraid of another heartbreak, while others think she’s simply unwilling to settle.

A New Love Interest… or Just a Hollywood Fantasy?

Amidst the whispers of her struggle to move on, one name keeps popping up: Ted Lasso star Brett Goldstein. The two are currently filming Office Romance, and sources say there’s definite chemistry between them.

"Goldstein has made it clear he’s interested, and Jen enjoys his company," a source shares. "But whether she’s willing to open her heart again remains to be seen."

For now, Lopez remains caught between the past and the future, unwilling to fully let go of Affleck but yearning for a love that can stand on its own. The big question is: Will she ever allow herself to move forward, or is she doomed to forever chase a love story that no longer exists?