Wedding nerves: Is it more than cold feet? Take this pop quiz

There are pre-wedding jitters and then there is the real thing — the I-can't-go-through-with-this-wedding kind of real. But how do you distinguish one from the other?

Answering these few questions can help:

Have you asked your friends and family — "Am I doing the right thing?" "Should I really get married?"

a) Yes — I need to know I am making the right decision.

b) No — I know I want to get married.

Are you involved in any of the major wedding planning decisions?

a) It's not my forte, so I leave it to the bride and her family.

b) Of course — I want our choices to reflect us as a couple.

Do you often think about dating other women?

a) Yes — don't all guys?

b) Not really.

How often do you and your fiancée meet?

a) Just on the weekend.

b) We meet a few times a week — there's a lot to be done.

The idea of being married to your fiancée fills you with...

a) Doubt.

b) Happiness.

ANSWERS

Mostly As

So what if you won't get your caterer's deposit back, it will be better for you in the long run because frankly, you are not ready to get married. Asking people whether you should and complete lack of enthusiasm are all red fl ags. Not meeting your better half and thinking about being single are equally alarming.

Mostly Bs

You, dear sir, are ready to get hitched. You love the lady in your life and can't wait to begin your happily ever after. Congratulations!.