Read on if you find yourself choosing between two potential partners.
The problem of plenty has never been more prominent than in current times. People today have limitless options thanks to more exposure than ever before, and the area of love can become crowded and confusing. If you’ve been dating more than one woman, choosing who you want to settle down with can seem like a daunting task and you may be asking yourself, is it really possible to love two people at once? Psychologists unequivocally agree that you can, in fact, love two people at once, but with a very important distinction. You usually love the two people in different ways . But how do you pick which one is the right one for you?
The big three
When we are attracted to someone romantically, there are three brain systems at work. The first is attraction, the second is romantic love and then there is sex drive. You can feel all three for three different people and even though it’s rare, it’s not uncommon to find one person who ticks all three boxes for you. If you’re caught between choosing between two partners, it helps to see who ticks more boxes and which boxes are the most important to you.
Once you can isolate why you love a particular person and what you’re looking for in an exclusive relationship, the dilemma can become easier to solve.
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Look inward Chemistry is a strange thing and the reason why we do not respond to everyone the same way. So, if you have been dating multiple women, take a few moments to look inward at what you are like with each of them. Do you find your personality changing with one? Are you more yourself around the other? Pay close attention to what you are like around each woman and whether you like the person you are. Choose the person who brings out the best in you.
Take your time You don’t have to decide overnight (unless of course, you’ve been given an ultimatum). Take your time discovering the person, asking them questions that gives you an insight into their personality. And if you are feeling overwhelmed, take some time off.
Absence and abstinence can not only make the heart grow fonder, but in this case, can also make you see clearer. When you take time off from dating the women, you can tell who you crave to meet.
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Go with your gut You can use your head and heart for a number of important decisions, but if the answer is still not obvious to you even after a lot of deliberation, it’s best to trust your gut. Close your eyes and imagine what your life will be like, now and a few years from now. Who do you see yourself with? And most importantly, don’t forget you have a third option: not picking either of them.
Strawberry Toast, Pinenut Soup & Walnut Cake: Please Your Valentine With Mouth-Watering Delicacies
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Valentine's Day is just around the corner and there's so much that you can do to enjoy the perfect, romantic evening with your partner. A dinner date is a sure-shot win on Valentine's. However, this year, pledge to please your loved one with delicious treats prepared at home.
Top chefs share their secret recipes to make your celebration special.
Valentine's Day is just around the corner and there's so much that you can do to enjoy the perfect, romantic evening with your partner. A dinner date is a sure-shot win on Valentine's. However, this ..
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Executive Chef of the Jaypee Greens Golf & Spa Resort, Shivanand Kain, shared a cilantro rubbed roast chicken with strawberry and Californian grapes emulsion recipe to make Valentine's Day celebration more special.
Cilantro Rubbed Roast Chicken With Strawberry And Californian Grapes Emulsion
Ingredients Chicken Breast: 250 gm Grilled Vegetable: 80 gm Lyonnaise Potato: 80 gm Strawberry and Grapes Emulsion: 30 ml Fresh Coriander: 20 gm Chopped Parsley: 5 gm Olive Oil: 10 ml Chopped Garlic: 10 gm Salt: To taste Crushed Black Pepper: 2 gm
Method -Marinate the chicken breast with fresh coriander and garlic paste -Add seasoning, keep aside for 30 minutes -Grill the chicken breast, vegetables and lyonnaise potato -Arrange the grilled chicken breast on plate with vegetables and lyonnaise potatos -Pour strawberry and grapes emulsion -Garnish with parsley or herbs.
Executive Chef of the Jaypee Greens Golf & Spa Resort, Shivanand Kain, shared a cilantro rubbed roast chicken with strawberry and Californian grapes emulsion recipe to make Valentine's Day celebratio..
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Don't forget to bring an elegant dish on your Valentine's dinner table. We bring to you a Roasted Garlic & Pinenut Soup With Burnt Butter Essence recipe Straight from the Valentine's menu at San Gimignano Restaurant at The Imperial.
Roasted Garlic & Pinenut Soup With Burnt Butter Essence
Ingredients Garlic Cloves: 10 Whole Almonds: 5 Parsley: 15 gm Bayleaf: 1 Chicken Broth: 4 cups Nutmeg: A Pinch Egg Yolks: 1 Heavy Cream: Half a cup White Bread: 2 slices Butter: 1 tbsp Salt: To Taste Pepper: A Pinch White Wine: 30 ml
Method -Peel garlic cloves & blanch them -Add white wine, salt and butter and roast it for 20 minutes at 140 degree celcius -Take almonds and blanch them and remove their skin and also roast them -Make puree of roasted garlic and almonds -Heat a pan, add butter into it and then add puree of garlic and almond into pan -Add chicken broth and bouquet to it -Boil the soup -Whisk egg yolk and cream together -Pour the mixture into the soup -Stir to prevent the egg from curdling -Take the white bread to make croutons -Make burnt butter -Remove the bouquet garni from soup -Season with salt -Garnish with croutons and burnt butter.
Don't forget to bring an elegant dish on your Valentine's dinner table. We bring to you a Roasted Garlic & Pinenut Soup With Burnt Butter Essence recipe Straight from the Valentine's menu at San Gimi..
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Valentine's day celebration is incomplete without a mouthwatering dessert. Pullman & Novotel's Director of Culinary, Chef Ajay Anand, brings an innovative strawberry rasgulla dome, boondi ladoo srusle recipe to add the sweet element to your celebration.
Method -Heat strawberry puree and white chocolate together -Fold it with whipping cream and soaked gelatine leaves -Make a dome with a Rasgulla in the centre -Keep it to freeze -Glaze the dish with a red glaze- -Serve it along with a boondi strusel,raspberry curd and mint spring.
Valentine's day celebration is incomplete without a mouthwatering dessert. Pullman & Novotel's Director of Culinary, Chef Ajay Anand, brings an innovative strawberry rasgulla dome, boondi ladoo srusl..
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You simply can't consider a Valentine's Day celebration complete without a cake. F&B Director and Executive Chef of Radisson Blu Atria Bengaluru, Chef Kasiviswanathan, shares an easy-to-make recipe of an eggless chocolate walnut cake.
Method -Grease and dust an 8” baking tin and preheat oven to 180 degree celcius -Sieve together Maida, cocoa and baking soda -Beat butter and dahi until light and creamy -Fold in the sieved ingredients, alternating with milk and condensed milk -Fold in the chopped walnuts and pour into greased tin -Bake in the preheated oven for 25-30 minutes till tooth pick inserted in the centre comes out clean -Allow to cool in tin for 5 minutes and remove onto a wire rack.
For Chocolate Icing -Mix together butter, cocoa, condensed milk and beat well -Microwave for 20 seconds -Mix thoroughly -Spread over cake and leave to set -Slice and serve.
You simply can't consider a Valentine's Day celebration complete without a cake. F&B Director and Executive Chef of Radisson Blu Atria Bengaluru, Chef Kasiviswanathan, shares an easy-to-make recipe o..
