Seven things you're doing that's scaring women away

You’re really into the girl you are dating — so much so that maybe you are being a little too attentive, too interested, or too needy. While it’s always good to show a girl you are into her, are you coming on strong and sending the wrong vibes? Read these to avoid the common mistakes that may be scaring her away.

-Overdoing the compliments

If you give her too many compliments in the beginning, it can seem fake and desperate. When you first greet her, give her a nice hug and tell her she looks great. That’s it.

-Sharing too much too soon

Hold off on telling her all of your baggage. That means sharing all about your exes, previous dates, weird family, bizarre friends, health issues, anxieties. Too much too soon will make her run for the hills. Remember that people need to earn your story. Don’t give it all up front.

-Having bad hygiene

You should have great breath, no stray nose/ear hairs, clean hair and ironed clothes. Ideally, wear a nice pair of jeans, a collared pressed shirt and a sport coat over it, and you’ll hit a three pointer.

-Being rude to strangers

You may think you are impressing her by driving like a cabbie, or showing how funny and masculine you are by humiliating the waiter. But when you don’t respect others, it’s a sign that ultimately you won’t respect her. Also, when the check comes, pick it up. Yes, she’s a modern woman but there’s still a place for old-world chivalry unless explicitly requested otherwise.

-Not giving her enough space

Today’s man is lucky to have so much access to a woman he’s dating. Pity those poor blokes who had to make due with pay phones and answering machines. But many women complain that their guys act like GPS systems, keeping track of their every move. The best couples are the ones who are also strong individuals. Make sure to give her space and don’t be a digital stalker.

-Being selfish in bed

Many men know more about what’s under the hood of a car than the woman’s erogenous organs. That’s a shame considering it is the powerhouse of the female orgasm and responds to stimulation more. If you are not attentive to it, your woman will perceive you as being sexually selfish.

-Hiding your bedroom issues

Erectile disorder and premature ejaculation are common problems, but women often interpret the issues as being their fault or that you’re not attracted them. Instead of lying next to her and feeling a million miles apart, open up the lines of communication and let her in on the secret. It will help your relationship in the long run.