Performance pressure: Sexual problems men must speak about

Valentine’s Day is a few weeks away and while you may have big plans with your partner, show a little care for yourself as well. According to a survey, four in five men between the ages of 18 and 34 have never spoken to a family member, friend, partner or doctor about their sexual problems. Gaurav Gupta, Co-Founder of Misters.in which aims to speak about and uplift men's confidence for a healthier sexual lifestyle, tells us about sexual problems men must be open to speaking about.

Ten sexual issues men must speak about:

1. Soft erections: “An erection that makes penetration difficult can be a symptom of erectile dysfunction,” says Gupta. Causes are usually medical but can also be psychological. If this has persisted for some time, Gupta says, “Do not hesitate to discuss this with your doctor.”

2. Early ejaculation: “Climaxing too early, too often is a warning sign of premature ejaculation. It can be treated, if diagnosed early,” advises Gupta. Estimates vary, but as many as 1 out of 3 men say they experience this problem at some time.

3. Absence of morning erection: “Low testosterone is the major cause of this,” says Gupta. But this could also be a warning sign that your overall health needs to be looked at. “This may also indicate early signs of diabetes, hypertension or erectile dysfunction,” adds Gupta.

4. Lack of sexual desire: Are you just never in the mood? You should speak up because this is usually a solvable problem. “A difference or drop in libido may be due to hormonal fluctuation or other psychological causes,” says Gupta.

5. Penis too curved: Intercourse doesn’t have to be uncomfortable and you should definitely not be in pain. “This is often an indication of Peyronie’s disease. If you experience pain or discomfort during intercourse, speak to a professional,” advises Gupta.

6. Unusual discharge: Keep an eye on what’s going on below the belt. “One of the signs of sexually transmitted diseases (STD), any unusual discharge from the penis requires attention and treatment,” says Gupta. It’s best to see a doctor as soon as you notice any change from the regular.

7. A lump or discomfort in the testes: This should not be ignored. “Testicular cancer is most common in men between 15-29 years of age. Consult your doctor immediately if you observe any pain or lumps,” says Gupta.

8. Blood in the seminal fluid: “This could signal early signs of prostate cancer. Early diagnosis can help prevent it.”

9. Pain during urination and interrupted flow: Prolonged pain may be due to prostate gland problems. Meet your physician to understand the causes.

10. Inability to achieve erection: Frequent episodes indicate erectile dysfunction. Speaking to an expert can help you understand the causes and find the right treatment.