He was so broke that they married over vada pav. Became nearly paralysed after 5 months. Again competed after 4 years and won. But one thing did not change: Wife's support

Love, grit, and ambition often collide in the most unexpected ways. Abhilash Tomy, former Indian Army Commander and naval pilot turned circumnavigator, began a journey that would test every ounce of his resilience—and the unwavering support of his wife. Their wedding was modest, marked by vada pav and tea, a reflection of the financial struggle he faced at the time. He explained that he invested every savings, borrowed heavily, and faced immense odds without sponsorship support. But this humble beginning set the stage for a story of determination, courage, and love that transcends circumstance.

A race that changed everything

Just five days after the wedding, Abhilash left for a gruelling European sailing race. Fate, however, had harsher challenges in store. He returned five months later, confined to a wheelchair and nearly paralysed. The physical pain was immense, but the emotional challenge was even greater. Through it all, his wife became the anchor in a storm, caring for him while carrying their first child, embodying patience, resilience, and love that demanded no recognition.

Comeback fueled by courage

Four years later, the call of the ocean and the allure of another world circumnavigation race beckoned. It was his wife who gave him the courage to try again, to chase a dream that had already cost so much. Every setback became a stepping stone, every wave a test of his resolve.

Victory against the odds

8 months of relentless sailing, braving storms and isolation, culminated in triumph. Abhilash Tomy returned victorious, proving that determination, skill, and grit could conquer even the most daunting challenges. Yet, he never failed to acknowledge the unseen force behind his achievement: the steadfast support of a partner who carried the weight of home, family, and hope while he battled the elements. His journey reminds the world that behind every extraordinary win, there is often a silent hero—steadfast, patient, and endlessly supportive.

About Abhilash Tomy

An ex-Indian Navy pilot and decorated maritime reconnaissance officer, Abhilash Tomy is one of fewer than twenty people to complete multiple solo, non-stop circumnavigations of the globe. Over 500 days alone at sea honed his resilience and offered a perspective few can imagine. His first circumnavigation earned him a triumphant reception by the President of India, yet he did not rest. In 2018, he attempted a second global race, facing a catastrophic accident that left him with a broken spine and a gruelling recovery. He returned four years later to compete again, finishing on the podium after 236 days alone at sea.


Tomy’s extraordinary journey earned him over nine national awards, including three from the President of India. He has authored four books, been featured in two documentaries, and is celebrated as Titanium Tomy for his spinal implants and the MacGyver of the Seas for his inventive problem-solving. Recognised as one of the ten toughest Indians, his story underscores the unseen power of unwavering support, relentless determination, and the ability to triumph even when the odds are stacked against you.