First Zoom dates, getting the jab: Behaviour of daters evolves amidst second wave

Though dating continues uninterrupted, priorities have changed.

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Vaccination is a concern among daters.
The majority of people would want their first date to be virtual as they would not want to risk it. Vaccination is a concern among daters.

The second wave of the pandemic appears to be more scary and deadly. While the nation grapples as the situation is serious, the vaccination drive is in full swing. Amidst all that's happening around, the behaviour of daters is rapidly evolving. Though dating continues uninterrupted, daters' priorities have changed who now have a new set of concerns.

Dating is well and alive! However, there has been much development around how people want to date (real world or virtual), intimacy in the current situation, dating options in the current situation and so on. Dating platform QuackQuack has shared some key insights into daters' behaviour during uncertain times.


The report reveals users’ opinion on 2 key parameters – dating a person who is not vaccinated and major concerns while dating during present circumstances. The responses are categorised gender-wise, age-wise as well as location wise. The three age groups are 18-20, 21-30 and 31 & above.

Want a date? Get a vaccine
Around 80 per cent of people in the age group 31 and above feel inoculation as a prerequisite in their date. Likewise, majority 70 per cent of people in the age group 18-30 consider meeting their date only after getting the jab and wouldn’t risk during the second wave. On the other hand, 30 per cent of people in the age 18-30 wouldn’t necessarily consider vaccination and would take other safety precautions while meeting. In fact, majority of people wouldn’t continue conversation with the person who is vaccine hesitant and would cut off the conversation smoothly. A very few of them would be ok to have a conversation with anti vaccinators considering it as an individual choice.

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When asked about the preferences around first date experience, the majority 57 per cent in the age group 18 and above said they want their first date to be virtual as they wouldn’t want to risk it. On the other hand, 43 per cent of people in the age 18 and above being old school, would want to meet in person by following safety precautions. Surprisingly, majority 61 per cent from smaller cities/towns and 54 per cent people from top cities understand the risk of meeting and prefer their first date to be virtual over meeting in person.

Emotions running high
The survey also fetched opinions of daters regarding physical intimacy during the current second wave of the pandemic. The majority 66 per cent youngsters in the age 18-20 and 58 per cent people in the age 21 and above would prefer emotional attachment for now. On the contrary, the remaining 34 per cent in the age 18-20 and 42 per cent of people in the age 21 and above vote for physical intimacy even today. Stating that pandemic or no pandemic, physical intimacy is a must to decide on a partner.

Surprisingly, the majority 57 per cent of people in the age 18-30 are fine dating people from other locations when compared to 43 per cent in the same age group. On the contrary majority 57 per cent people in the age 31 and above wouldn’t want to risk travelling as they consider themselves as a weak prey to COVID and choose matches from their location when compared to 43 per cent in the age 31 and above.

Finding Love Online Can Be A Cakewalk, Just Avoid These Seven Mistakes
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Everything in this world has become digital now. You can even find love by just one swipe of your finger. But some restrictions imposed by photo and character limits leave some of us at a bit of a loose end.

According to The Independent, two Reddit users asked men and women to list the red flags they've seen on dating profiles.

These are the seven mistakes people make while writing about themselves in a dating app bio:
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The Blank Profile

You've already gone to the effort of creating a profile, typing your name and age, maybe you even uploaded one pic. What else do they need?
The Blank Profile You've already gone to the effort of creating a profile, typing your name and age, maybe you even uploaded one pic. What else do they need?
Bathroom Selfies

Firstly, that flash is obscuring the torso/chest/face you're obviously desperate to show off. Secondly, you're clearly a bit of a narcissist/you don't get out much, hence the bathroom. Thirdly, don't think we can't see that there's a toilet in the background.
Bathroom Selfies Firstly, that flash is obscuring the torso/chest/face you're obviously desperate to show off. Secondly, you're clearly a bit of a narcissist/you don't get out much, hence the bathro..
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Height

Short of stating your shoe size and your contact lens prescription, writing your height in your bio essentially translates to the following "I'm not interesting, I'm not witty, but I sure am tall".
Height Short of stating your shoe size and your contact lens prescription, writing your height in your bio essentially translates to the following "I'm not interesting, I'm not witty, but I sure am ..
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The group profile picture

Not only is this confusing as we have no idea who you are, but it immediately leads us to believe that you are the least attractive person in the photograph. Not a good start. Either bag yourself some beastly friends or play it safe with a solo pic.
The group profile picture Not only is this confusing as we have no idea who you are, but it immediately leads us to believe that you are the least attractive person in the photograph. Not a good sta..
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Dog/child photos

You're asking for trouble with either. Whilst the former will only bring immense disappointment when paired with "not my dog" in your bio, the latter is bound to catalyse commit issues in even the broodiest of broods. Expect an apocalypse if your photo includes both.
Dog/child photos You're asking for trouble with either. Whilst the former will only bring immense disappointment when paired with "not my dog" in your bio, the latter is bound to catalyse commit iss..
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Using emojis in the place of words

We get it, you like beer/wine/avocados and sometimes you smile/wear sunglasses/dance like a sassy girl in a red dress. It might be 2017 but the language of love is still a lexical art. Say it, don't emoji it.
Using emojis in the place of words We get it, you like beer/wine/avocados and sometimes you smile/wear sunglasses/dance like a sassy girl in a red dress. It might be 2017 but the language of love is..
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And finally

Remember, no one is everyone's "type on paper". You're looking for someone who "ticks all the boxes" but doesn't give you "the ick". You want to show that you're good at "grafting" but don't be "muggy" about it. You're ready to put all your "eggs in one basket" and are gagging to "crack on" but terrified of being "pied", so you're "pranging out".
And finally Remember, no one is everyone's "type on paper". You're looking for someone who "ticks all the boxes" but doesn't give you "the ick". You want to show that you're good at "grafting" but d..
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