Draw women towards you effortlessly

The hardest part of approaching women is figuring out what to say and how to talk to them. Pick-up artists will give you a set of one liners they say will work wonders to start a conversation with a girl. But what will you say after that?

How will you remain yourself after starting with a line that didn’t come from you in the first place? When approaching women it’s important to remain genuine. Forcing a one-liner that is not coming from you will definitely get detected by her radar. In the end, it doesn’t really matter what you say but how you say it. It’s a state of mind, a state of being and not just about a quick oneline. Here’s a formula you could use: OSA, or observation, sharing, asking.

Observation

Make an observation about the world around you. The woman, the weather, the surroundings. At the grocery store, for instance, when you see a woman loading up on food, say, “That’s a lot of food for a little lady”. After an observational statement is made, you will get one of two responses:
1. The woman will come back with a line of banter. 2. The woman will stare at you, while she says to herself: “What does this guy want from me?”
Both responses can lead to either sharing or asking a question.

Sharing

Share an opinion, experience, interesting fact or story about yourself pertaining to the observation, such as: “I was here about a week ago buying food for my weekly summer bbq and had a cart that looked similar to yours. I probably got about 30 stares from people thinking to themselves that guy’s a pig or that guy’s in for a good time.” This gives the woman a second to let her guard down and see that you are simply sharing and engaging in conversation with her, not trying to get anything from her.

Asking

Make sure your questions are open ended and require more than a one-or two-word response. After you ask your questions, which will be opening up the conversation to her, listen.
OSA is not a routine; it’s a way of talking to women so that you can express yourself and let them have a sense of who you are.

This is a way to talk to women and focus on you and your world, rather than attempting to jump into a woman’s world right away.

Now that you know OSA, it’s time to try it out. It will be challenging at first, but if you keep practising, you will own it soon enough.