‘Are you sure you want to do this?’: Benny Blanco shares how one question by Selena Gomez changed his mind about making their relationship public

Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco are the’it’ couple of Hollywood. The pair often dishes out major couple goals, leaving fans gushing. But do you know that before making their relationship public, Blanco wanted to keep it private? The music producer has shared the confession in a recent interview, talking about the early stages of his relationship with the actress-singer. Blanco revealed that he was keen on keeping their romance private until one question by his now-wife, Gomez, changed his mind completely.

Benny Blanco on private relationship with Selena Gomez

Benny Blanco, in a conversation with Spanish newspaper El País, disclosed that the couple had actually managed to keep their relationship entirely under wraps for a considerable period, spanning about 8 or 9 months.


According to Benny Blanco, the pivotal shift occurred when Selena Gomez, well aware of the intense spotlight that accompanies her celebrity status, confronted him with a significant question. He recalled being asked by the actress-singer if he was absolutely certain about making their romance public, with Gomez even offering him the option to simply remain friends if the public scrutiny felt too overwhelming.

Moved by her consideration, Benny Blanco explained that he ultimately decided to cast his doubts aside. He noted that they both feel incredibly fortunate to be anchored by longtime friends and family who have known them since before their massive fame, ensuring they remain surrounded by a genuinely supportive and loving inner circle.

Benny Blanco on why prefers a private life

When questioned about the sudden, intense public fascination with his private life after years of comfortably working out of the spotlight, Benny Blanco confessed that navigating the modern landscape of internet culture remains a major adjustment for him. The hitmaker explained to El País that exposing his private life is not something he enjoys. He further pointed out that public figures are subjected to constant scrutiny, noting that in the public eye, they are often criticized regardless of what they choose to say.

Further in the conversation, Benny Blanco admitted that while he values his personal space and wishes he could retain more of it, he considers himself part of a bridge generation that grew up prior to the digital age. Consequently, his approach to the internet remains selective; while he will occasionally share a sweet snapshot of his wife or a memorable meal he has enjoyed, he prefers to keep his online presence focused primarily on his musical endeavors.

Benny Blanco and Selena Gomez got married on September 27 last year. Workwise, Blanco’s upcoming Spanish-language album, Hermoso will feature a unique blend of Spanish-language music genres, including cumbia, which originated along the Caribbean coast of Colombia, he told the outlet. Meanwhile, Gomez is rumored to be featured on the album. She has previously released her own Spanish-language music in celebration of her Mexican heritage, including her Revelacíon EP in 2021.