AR Rahman divorce: Wife Saira Banu announces separation after 29 years of marriage, citing 'emotional strain'

In a surprising turn of events, renowned music composer AR Rahman and his wife, Saira Banu, have announced their separation after nearly three decades of marriage. The couple, who tied the knot in 1995 through an arranged marriage, confirmed the news through an official statement released on Tuesday, November 19.

As per India Today, the statement, issued by Saira Banu's lawyer Vandana Shah, highlights the reasons behind their decision. "After many years of marriage, Mrs. Saira has made the difficult decision to separate from her husband Mr. AR Rahman. This decision comes after significant emotional strain in their relationship. Despite their deep love for each other, the couple has found that the tensions and difficulties have created an insurmountable gap between them, one that neither party feels able to bridge at this time," the statement read.

Saira Banu further emphasized the emotional turmoil that led to this decision, requesting privacy during this challenging phase. "This decision has been taken out of pain and agony. I humbly request the public for understanding as I navigate this difficult chapter of my life," she said.

AR Rehman pens emotional note

Taking to X (formerly Twitter) early on Wednesday, the music maestro shared a heartfelt reflection, expressing a poignant sense of longing and acceptance. He acknowledged the end of something deeply cherished, noting that even the strongest foundations can feel the strain of sorrow. In the midst of this emotional upheaval, he emphasized the importance of searching for meaning, even when the fragments of the past cannot be perfectly restored. Grateful for the support and understanding of friends, he requested privacy during this delicate phase of healing and introspection.

AR Rahman-Saira Banu's Love Story

AR Rahman, often referred to as the "Mozart of Madras," married Saira Banu in an arranged marriage set up by his mother. In an interview with Simi Garewal, Rahman candidly shared, "I didn’t have time to search for a bride. I was immersed in work, including projects like Rangeela, and asked my mother to find me a simple woman who would support me and inspire my music." The couple went on to have three children — daughters Khatija and Rahima, and son Ameen Rahman.

The announcement comes as a shock to fans and admirers of the Oscar-winning composer. Known for his humility and devotion to his family, Rahman has always spoken fondly of his wife and their partnership. However, the official statement sheds light on the challenges that strained their relationship over the years. Emotional difficulties and mounting tensions have been cited as the primary reasons behind their decision to part ways.

Request for Privacy

Both AR Rahman and Saira Banu have expressed a desire for privacy during this time. The statement specifically requests the public and media to respect their space as they deal with this personal matter.

This announcement coincides with Rahman’s scheduled tribute to the late Lata Mangeshkar at the International Film Festival of India in Goa.